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"It's the Transitions" by Pastor Kevin Miller

Posted by Pamela Gonzalez on OA10er @ 10:07

     Doing ministry is challenging.  Doing it in a new setting can be trying.  The very first line in William Bridges’ book, “Managing Transitions” is “It’s not the changes that do you in, it’s the transitions.”  My experience is that the people of the church make all the difference when it comes to helping transitions go well. 

     At First United Methodist Church, 2017 has been a year of changes and transition. There is a new Senior Pastor (yours truly) beginning July 1; a new Pastor of Visitation (Rev. Dee Miller) who began duties on July 15, and a new Director of Choirs (Christopher Ebert) who began on August 16.  We are all transitioning together.

    There is a fourth staff position that has been open for a long time.  With all due respect to the rest of our great staff, I believe that the leader of youth is the most important in the church today.   And I think most of you do as well.  I’ve heard the comments loud and clear:

“We need youth leadership!”
“We need youth leadership NOW!”
“We need dynamic youth leadership!”
“We need a youth leader teenagers can connect with!”
“We want a dynamic youth program!”
“Our church needs a solid youth program and leadership!” 

     In my short time here, it’s obvious that a solid youth program is important to you and to this church. 

     The good news is that we may be close to hiring a solid leader for our youth program. Someone who loves Jesus, loves His church, loves leading youth and has experience in leading a program that builds leaders. 

     I’ve been down this road a few times and here’s what I’ve learned:

  • Hiring the wrong person costs more than hiring the right person. Without a clear vision of the gifts, graces and talents you’re looking for, it’s tempting to hire the first person who applies.  But hiring the wrong person doesn’t just cost money.  There is a cost in trust and goodwill, which means that the next leader begins their ministry under a cloud of suspicion and doubt. 
  • Hiring the right person comes with a cost.   As with the wrong person, “cost” here means more than money and time.  A new person means new perspectives, ideas and visions. I’m not talking about losing our history or identity for youth ministry.  What is important to you (a youth choir, popcorn festival, mission trips, etc.) will be part of their orientation.  But we need to be open to new ideas for ministry, and be publicly supportive of new ideas.
  • He’ll need room to do ministry. Here’s what I mean: if this person is in my office in six months in tears and questioning their place here, IT’S NOT HIS FAULT!   Each church has a different culture and despite our best efforts, we instinctively revert to “the way we do things here.”  Music and youth ministries are vital components to the life and ministry of FUMC, but this person will need room to establish themselves (inside AND outside the church). 

     Remember, change is a part of our everyday life.  It’s the transitions that can do us in.

     How can you help this transition go well? There are several ways:

  • Begin by praying for the new leader.  We may know soon, but as I write this, both sides are discerning. 
  • Even when we know, pray for the new leader, and his/her family.
  • Be prayerfully supportive; verbally supportive and hospitable as (another) new person joins our staff. And be financially supportive. We are making a commitment to support a leader so that our young people can be ushered and discipled into a growing relationship with Jesus Christ. 

     I’m excited about the prospects for ministry here in 2018.  Let’s all transition together. 

Pastor Kevin Miller
December 6, 2017

Michael Leland said...

Posted on OP9er @ 20:08 -
Pastor Miller,

I am passionate about music. I will enthusiastically do whatever I can to promote and augment the music ministry at FUMC. I have many ideas. I have discussed my interests with Christopher. The select ensemble "Joy!" which I assembled has performed recently to benefit Housing Opportunities. We were a smash hit!
I hope to involve youth in future music making. I am aware the transition from Esta to Chris has presented some challenges.
How might I contribute to the music ministry at FUMC?

larry.tumbleson@gmail.com said...

Posted on OP8er @ 19:30 -
Amen!

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"Something More Powerful . . ." by Pastor Kevin Miller

Posted by Pamela Gonzalez on OA10er @ 10:41

Has the world gone nuts in the last couple weeks, or is it just me? I’m not as outspoken on social causes as many of my colleagues but allow me to make an observation.

Although I “grew up” during the 1970’s, I was heavily influenced by the turmoil of the ‘60’s.  You see, my oldest brother served in Vietnam, so even though I was young, I became socially aware of the world around me.  The news was dominated by demonstrations against the war and made statements like, “Question authority!” and “Don’t trust anyone over the age of 30!”  Reflecting on it became part of my family’s dinner conversation.

I don’t remember either of my parents saying this, or exactly when, where or how I developed this thought, but here goes: All those demonstrations and riots and pickets and protests didn’t accomplish anything. Using violence to react to violence has never ended well…and I don’t think it ever will.

Understand I’m not talking about limiting anyone’s freedom to assemble and state their opinion.  In the midst of all this turmoil, I remember a simple, but powerful lesson: “I may disagree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.”  In other words, in this country, anyone has the right to express their opinion…whether I personally agree with it or not.  No matter how stupid or misguided someone’s opinion is…they have the right to express it.  And reacting violently to another person’s opinions doesn’t change anything.

During the 1960’s, there was one man with a different vision who used something more powerful – a peaceful use of a biblical worldview. Martin Luther King brought about change by encouraging non-violence; by promoting peace and by intercepting hate in exchange for love.  And he died for the sake of that cause.  Centuries ago, a man by the name of Jesus of Nazareth used the same strategy and his death and resurrection changed the world

If you really want to change the world around you, get to know this Jesus. During his final discussion with his disciples, he told them, “I am leaving you with a gift – peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.” (John 14:27 NLT)   Allow this gift to work in you.

Peace in this world is usually defined as the absence of conflict. The peace of Christ is confident assurance in any circumstance.  The world around us focuses on sin, fear, uncertainty, doubt and so many other forces at war within us.  Jesus said he will give us this peace if we are willing to accept it from him.  This is the peace that really does go beyond our understanding, and that truly changes hearts to transform the world.  What do you think?

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

St. Francis of Assisi

Cindy Felton said...

Posted on OA9er @ 8:58 -
Pam, I so appreciate your thoughts here and in our weekly newsletter. You have made communication your ministry and I always feel closer to Christ after reading your words. Absence of conflict is not the goal Christ has for us - it is the blessed assurance that He loves us that brings true peace sustaining us through our own conflicts.

Keith Kirkpatrick said...

Posted on OA9er @ 8:18 -
Very thoughtful and well said.

John kemler said...

Posted on OP12er @ 11:12 -
Love your commentary and the prayer at the end of it. Make me an instrument of your peace, Lord.

Lani said...

Posted on OA10er @ 9:46 -
AMEN!

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"A very long exhale . . ." by Pastor Kevin Miller

Posted by Pamela Gonzalez on OA11er @ 11:58

Some days you have to take a deep breath with a very long exhale. It’s already August and I feel like I’ve been here a very long time.  This has been the summer of change for the Miller household.  The summer is just half-over and here’s what’s happened:

  • We moved from Kokomo to Valparaiso.
  • I started a new appointment on July 1.
  • Liz ended one job and began a new one.
  • Nate registered for classes at a new school and will start a new job later this month.
  • We have moved farther away from our daughters, but closer to Liz’s parents.
  • My brother died.

You know, when I list everything, it seems overwhelming. One of the staff pointed out that we experienced the three top producers of stress in life all since summer began: new job, a move and the death of a loved one.  I didn’t really need to know that!

But God continues to bless us with favor. God blessed us with precious time with Alan during his last days.  We talked, we prayed, we laughed and we cried, and I can only hope that if I ever find myself with a similar diagnosis as Alan, that I can face death with the same grace, courage and humor as he did.

God blessed us with safety during our move. Everything went well; we all arrived safely and nothing was broken.

God blessed us with family and friends.  Mid-July was a whirlwind with the blessing of seeing Liz’s family for a couple days in Wisconsin and then speaking at Alan’s funeral in Decatur. What a feeling of love and support from extended family we seem to only see at funerals anymore, and spending a few minutes with life-long friends.

Finally, God has blessed us with wonderful churches. This is the body of Christ at work. The people and staff of Valparaiso First have been so loving and supportive and understanding during this time. We will never forget your graciousness and love during a stressful transition.  You have made it go smoothly and for this we will be forever grateful.

Because of the body of Christ in action; because of Jesus and because of love, I end my long exhale with the prayer, GOD IS GOOD!

Pastor Kevin
August 9, 2017

Becky said...

Posted on OA9er @ 8:30 -
We have been blessed that you and your family are now part of our church family.

alice said...

Posted on OP9er @ 20:18 -
ALL THE TIME . . .

Sherri said...

Posted on OA10er @ 9:34 -
God is Good!

Kate said...

Posted on OP1er @ 12:18 -
...all the time!

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